" We cannot rise higher than thought of ourselves" - Orison Swett Marden
I never thought that I'd be successful. No one believed in me before! Actually a lot of people way back described me as my parents biggest failure! "Ouch!" but well, it didn't happen.
Why allow people judge you, right? They do not know you, they don't have any idea what your plans are - You hold your own path! You build your own future, your career and everything!
So here's what I did - I made that "negative impression" a REAL motivation to keep myself going! yeah! - you know why? the more they say I'm a failure, disappointmet, the more I'm eager to make myself successful that one day - they'll regret what they have said.. "And where I am now?" Oh well, guess what .. I have my own business, I have my own company, I employ and help people, I support my family.. I don't have to prove them anything.. I just did what I needed to do!
I am actually grateful because they were the ones who pushed me to be at the TOP! Once a disappointment but now someone that my family could be thankful to and proud of! isn't it excellent? Such a good feeling to see your loved ones smile and happy because you have helped them in your OWN WAYS!
So, here's my message for people who usually put or bring themselves down just because people look down on them:
Why would you be affected of other people telling you YOU are not good enough..
Why would you be affected of other people talking about you and your failures in life! All of us have failures so they don't have the right to judge you!
Why would you be affected of other people? Remember, you have your family and they got your back..
Why worry enough about what other people would say! Just believe in your capacity! Do what is right.. Later on, you'll prove them wrong. You don't need to struggle just to show them that they are wrong.. Go on with your life, be successful! Struggle for yourself, for your family for your future!
Make them an inspiration - don't hate them, they'll just hate themselves later!
So here's my last piece of message to share.. :)
"We do not believe in ourselves until someone reveals that deep inside us something is valuable, worth listening to, worthy of our trust, sacred to our touch. Once we believe in ourselves we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight or any experience that reveals the human spirit."
